Flirting

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          I keep asking my self do i really understand FLIRTING..I am 23yrs old...yet till now i don't really understand what the word FLIRTING is all about..?? "Wikipedia" say's..- Flirting or coquetry is a social and sometimes sexual activity involving verbal or written communication as well as body language by one person to another, suggesting an interest in a deeper relationship with the other person. In most cultures, it is socially disapproved for a person to make explicitly sexual advances, but indirect or suggestive advances may at times be considered acceptable. On the other hand, some people flirt playfully, for amusement. A female, especially a young one, who flirts playfully is sometimes called a coquette or in slang a cock tease; while a male flirt may be called a womanizer or player.

       Flirting usually involves speaking and behaving in a way that suggests a mildly greater intimacy than the actual relationship between the parties would justify, though within the rules of social-etiquette which generally disapproves of a direct expression of sexual interest. This may be accomplished by communicating a sense of playfulness or irony. Double entendres, with one meaning more formally appropriate and another more suggestive, may be used. Body language can include flicking the hair, eye contact, brief touching, open stances, proximity etc. Verbal communication of interest can include the vocal tone, such as pace, volume, intonation. Challenges (teasing, questions, qualifying, feigned disinterest) serve to increase tension, test intention and congruity.

     In there words the motive in FLIRTING is usually to have sex. Meaning people who done this thing have a high "sexual libido".In Tagalog flirting what we call " Ligaw-Biro" is just for fun and sexual motive.

  I put my self to people who do this.I may say that sometimes in reality I done flirting in away to have fun and enjoy my teenage years.This is some of things that i get on flirting:

• For partnership relationship
• Short-term relationship
• Immaturity
• Disrespectful
• I can also say that it lifts my Spirits
• Fun time
• Adventure
• Sex it self.
• Many partners/change from time to time
• Challenging moment 

     But what ever we got and have by flirting we cannot justify it as a good way to live our life, we will always end up unhappy in the end.

  I want to leave all of you a question..Let put our self ego out and be brave so say I'done this so what we call FLIRTING..I done this because?It makes me feel?

   Its all your's to answer...